4.27.2007

Blog to Blog

Another friend has joined our ranks and you can find her here.

Although, you’re probably thinking what I sometimes think, “Another blog to read?”

(In this case, yes! You must!)

It’s not that I’m not grateful for the bounty of brilliant blogs out there. It’s downright amazing that there are so many talented writers out there, bringing us a daily dose of diatribe. (Or humorous takes on doing the laundry as the case may be.)

I mean, where were these writers before the blogosphere? Did they all keep copious journals or freelance for their local Pennysaver? Because I find it hard to believe that all these bloggers were writers by profession. And even harder to believe that they weren’t. (What? It makes sense to me.)

Thanks to random links, blog rolls and sheer serendity, I’ve stumbled upon some fabulous blogs, which I read daily. And by some, I mean, like, a lot. So many that sometimes I feel a little obsessed. Sometimes I feel a little guilty. I mean, it’s one thing to read a newspaper filled with current events and drizzle of editorials. But what if that newspaper was filled with witty columns, all totally biased and hilarious and engaging? And what if that newspaper was a thick Sunday edition every day of the week?

Is that wrong? Is that a waste of time? Is it even healthy to know that Pioneer Woman spent a day at the farm, or that Cjane ate tofu, or that Jordan woke up a little late?

Did I mention I don’t know these people? Because I’ve never met one of them. But through their writings, I feel like we’re friends. Just like some of you feel like we’z tight, even though you don’t know whether I have all my digits in tact. (FYE: I don’t, but we can still be friends.)

But my quandary doesn’t stop there. Every day it seems I stumble across a new link to a new blog. Some are stellar, some are scary; many are, frankly, quite boring. But the fact that they exist unnerves me a little. I hate thinking that the perfect blog is out there, waiting to be discovered. I hate knowing that every day someone new is composing a dazzling post that I may never read. I want to find them. I want to read them.

But I also want to do my laundry. And I don’t want to find myself mentally dictating a post about it while I do. (“What is it with socks? Is there some sort of alternate universe that is funding an intergalactic war through solar sock power?”)

Sometimes I want to rename the word blog because I get sick of using it. (And Mr. Dub likely gets sick of hearing it.) Sometimes I just want them to all go away. Sometimes I want them to all suck.

But they don’t, so I keep reading.

What about you?

(And on that topic, do you think blogs are a mere trend or here to stay?)

20 comments:

ANN said...

Well, what can I say? You are a dear dear dear lady. I DO know Mrs. Dub personally. She, in fact, convinced me to share my "very important thoughts" with the world. And, so, when I asked her last night "How do I get people to read my blog?" She responded by posting a link on her blog. I will be forever grateful that the Dub's are a part of my life (and for jump-starting my blog success).

p.s. - I also have started obsessing. Last night, I was explaining the need for new gardening shoes and my husband responded, "You don't need new shoes for every occasion." And, I thought, "A shoe for every occasion.... coming soon!"

Unknown said...

Yeah, I find myself composing blogs in my mind too. And, I feel like a majority of the comments I make to my husband, recounting my day, start with, "I read this blog today...". And I always feel a little weird saying it. Let me know when the new word for blog comes out.

Anonymous said...

I'm thinking that Miss Dub is going to be able to post her own blog by her first birthday. Her blog is going to reach out to all other blogger's of her generation and solve world hunger, bring world peace and stop global freaking warming.

Melanie M. McKinnon said...

One of the things Robby liked about you best were your digits. He had a very paticular memory of them and remembered how they became that way so be proud. He has also run out of things to look at on the internet and searches blogs daily and talks to me about them. it's pretty funny.

stephanie said...

i've recently decided to only read blogs of people i know, or of people who are one person removed from me. (for example: cjane. i know her sister, nie nie. so i feel like i can read her blog even though i don't actually know her.) i try not to think about all of the other super cool blogs i am missing out on. mostly they just make me feel bad about myself, anyway. i am happier without them.

and like abbie, most of my conversations with mike at the end of the day start with, "i was reading this blog today..." like he cares. but he listens because he loves me.

Leisha Mareth said...

A friend of mine made me laugh at church one Sunday. She raised her hand during Relief Society and said that she knew she was addicted to her computer when her children needed breakfast and all she could think was "Food, food, food, they always need food!"

I enjoy reading clever blogs too (cjane! pioneer woman!), and I enjoy making my blog a 'family scrapbook', but it's easy to let it suck too much time out of my busy day. Whenever I think I'm spending too much time on the computer I just make myself laugh by muttering "food, food, food" and then I get off!

As far as more blogs...the more the merrier...it is such a great outlet isn't it? Gives meaning to a seemingly ordinary and sometimes mundane existence.

sara said...

Oh my... how I do hope I will not end up being one of the "frankly, quite boring" blogs! I haven't been doing it long or consistently enough that I think in blog-talk, composing as I go throughout the day. But I can tell the people who do, and theirs are the mostly wildly successful (ie Mrs. Dub's). I hope that mine will improve with time as have many others I've seen.

I can't stand the B word... if it was called something different I probably would've jumped on the b-bandwagon much sooner.

Anonymous said...

yeah, let's form a "Rename Campaign" -- blog is just so sloppy. I love blogland. In a strange way, it makes me want to live better and here's why--when I know that I'm going to be writing about my day, my thoughts, my activities--I want to have a great day, deep thoughts, and fun activities. Mayabe that sounds funny, but I feel like the record I'm keeping on my blog actually makes me be more present in my own life so I can record it more vividly. There are so many neat people out there and now they have a way to share their voice, or their decorating idea, or their artwork or their daily details. And other peoples' creativity and wit don't discourage me nearly as much as they inspire and encourage me. And since I'm already ranting, I'll also say that I've yet to find a neater way for long distance friends and families to stay so connected.
Great post! Thanks :)

M-Ware said...

i, too, am obsessed with blogs. and mostly with the revealing ones. mine is not revealing and never will be because i'm very private. but revealing blogs have that excellent celeb gossip feel to them -- like you just found out something very personal about some human you don't even know in real life, and will likely never meet -- and you relish it. you feed off of it. and you always want more. however, like celeb gossip, if i read too many confession blogs for too long i start to feel gross. like i know far too many details about online humans and not enough about the real humans surrounding me. blogging is definitely here to stay and has introduced a really fun alternative to journal writing. but, for me, it's not a substitute. for introspection, i still prefer the old fashioned, handwritten journal.

tara said...

you see... the problem with you, mrs. dub, is that every post you do is completely witty. I mean really you're great! You keep me coming back for more. You get me thinkin'. I wonder, why can't every thing I write be that genius? I really think I might need to go to bloggers anon. b/c I've been sitting here, reading blogs for way too long (although I did post to mine) and really and truly, there are so many seemingly cool people out there that I want to meet them! It's so true, look how many amazing writers there are, wow!

My husband has nick named me "Blog-o" but it's okay b/c I can call him "truck-o" b/c when he's on the computer he's looking at trucks. I also feel weird starting a conversation by saying "today, I read on this blog..."

Before you know it the Gen RS president will be addressing this at Conference!

tara said...

oh yeah, and I DON'T WANT to do my laundry, but I want it to get done... so... that's my quandry. And when will socks just stop vanishing in the back of my dryer?

Leslie said...

if i had a nickel for every time i've questioned this whole blog thing's viability and the consequences it has brought into my life, good and bad, and more nickels for all the times i've thought of abandoning it altogether, i could buy my husband some headphones so he wouldn't have to listen to another conversation about all my imaginary friends who have blogs.

acte gratuit said...

I've never kept a journal regularly. Thinking I'm writing for some furture generation of posterity doesn't do it for me and the entries are always lame. With blogging, I get the instant gratification of blog comments, which motivate me to a) try to be funny, and b) keep writing. Therefore, I feel justified wasting hours on one post because I figure it's my journal. The only one I'm going to keep up.

And now I've discovered blurb.com that turns your blog into a book. I'm just going to print my blog once a year and BAM, I've kept a journal. (Good for ME!)

As for the time I spend/waste READING other blogs...they're just good inspiration, right?! (And we're supposed to seek after the virtuous, lovely, of good report,and insanely entertaining, right?)
Signed,
The Other Mrs. Dub

BTW, Stephanie, you'd better keep reading my blog, or I QUIT!!!

Bartimaeus said...
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Bartimaeus said...

I'm all for blogging. I mean what a great and creative way to communicate to friends and family about what is going on in your life.

For example, I haven’t seen you in over 2 years and yet I feel I like still know you. Without that my dub to dub relationship would only consist of quoting the office and other funny things with your Mr. Dub.

But then there is the dark side of the blogosphere...the side where you (a generic you not specifically you) spend too much time on the bloody computer and begin neglecting your family duties and responsibilities. (Especially when one might have to lie in bed and listen to updates on blogs from bloggers one doesn't even know.) I'm all for the once-removed blogger limit!

Jessi said...

I think the blogosphere is the new "chatting over the garden gate." And I for one have gleaned way more good than bad. So what if the laundry doesn't get done? While reading blogs I learned that the secret to losing weight is to eat less, that J.Crew has some awesome t-shirts, and that to potty train I need a timer and a bag of M&M's!

k8 said...

stumbling on a new awesome blog is like finding a $10 bill in a coat pocket you haven't worn in a awhile.

this one feels like a $20!!

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