1.22.2008

HTT - Patriotic Edition


I recently received a mass email from someone, which gave all sorts of "factual" information about Barack Obama, including his refusal to say the pledge of allegiance and admit his jihadist Muslim upbringing. My favorite part was when it declared that "As you know, Muslims have sworn to bring down America," and that Barack is running so he can do just that.

First off, the whole Barack pledge scandal is nothing more than a rumor as you can read here. Second, last I checked the Muslim religion as a whole prescribes to peace. Third, I hate forwards. I don't care if they are touching or made you laugh and/or wet your pants. Don't send them to me! (Sorry, I'm feeling sassy today and you're all going to pay the price.)

While discussing the email with Mr. Dub, we started into the issue of burning the flag and refusing to say the pledge. And things got a little heated on our couch - and it was only a Thursday!

Because I don't care if someone burns a flag. I don't care if someone doesn't say the pledge of allegiance. I don't care if you do or don't wear a patriotic pin or put your hand on your heart. It's not that I don't appreciate the patriotic symbolism of all these things. And it's not that I would burn a flag or eschew the pledge myself. It's just that I don't think patriotism is defined by these actions.

When someone burns an American flag in another country, the message may very well be "America sucks forever!" (And, well, each to his own. I'm so liberal that I can even understand the basis for some of the negative feelings foreigners have for America, but that's another Hot Topic.) But if an American burns an American flag, generally in protest, I think they're saying, "I believe in America, but right now it sucks!" And I think they are still patriotic individuals, though I'm not thrilled with their mode of protest, mostly because fire is scary. In fact, their mere desire to get involved or try to move a cause forward shows more patriotism to me than someone who says the pledge every day but never votes or doesn't get involved in community issues.

Same with the pledge. While I think the words are beautiful, reciting the words don't make someone patriotic to me. And refusing to say them, whether for religious or political reasons, doesn't offend me. It says to me that you are either someone who honorably adheres to your religion, or who firmly believes in your political stance. And I'm just happy that you have either, to be honest.

I don't think the flag is a sacred piece of cloth that can be compared to religious symbols and clothing, partially because people wear bikinis and make quilts of the same pattern. And I don't think the pledge is a covenant with God or our founding fathers.

But Mr. Dub disagrees. He thinks both the pledge and the flag are such sacred symbols that they must be treated with a high degree of reverence. And, well, he is an Eagle Scout, so I suppose that's appropriate.

What do you think?

Is it ever OK to burn the flag or refuse to say the pledge?

And if you do, does that make you unpatriotic?

Let's get serious, people!







p.s. We're having some serious medical conerns around our house. Blogging will be sporadic for quite a while, but you can compensate by writing more on yours so I have some good reads when I get a second!

39 comments:

Mary said...

I side with Mr. Dub so far as ... just don't go there ...with the burning thing. There are much better ways that don't send such a skewed message. And ... truth be told ... I have made a flag quilt. I do not however put in in the same category (or drawer) as my flag bikini.

I'm just glad you're feeling sassy today.

steph said...

you said it, sister! i agree 100%... mainly b/c most americans never vote, and most americans refuse to discuss politics for fear of starting a debate. i'm sorry, but discourse is what this country needs right now... and not just, "i stand behind my prez no matter what!" b/c that's how we got into this mes... remember?

oh, and i don't think i would burn a flag or not say the pledge, but that's simply b/c i like the flag and the pledge... i'm all for someone standing up for what they believe in, and flags are symbols for patriotism; they are not patriotism itself.

word.

steph said...

p.s. i obviously meant mess.

LCM said...

I am with Mr Dub too. I wrote a post last 4th of July detailing the long line of armed forces personnel in my family and my dad, having to come back to some heated comments on his participation in Vietnam, instilled in us early the sacredness of what people have been fighting for. Whether or not you agree with what the US does politically the Flag is more representative of those people who sacrifice so we can say the US sucks. The pledge, on the otherhand, I don't think anyone should have to say stuff they might not believe in. Don't make people say it, but don't give it up because some don't believe in it.

Salt H2O said...

Have you seen someone burn a flag and thought, "wow, that person is really bright, they may have a point?"


me neither.

Jen said...

I'm with you, Mrs. Dub.

And to retire a flag, one burns it. My dad did it at girls camp for us one year, and it was very moving. I think it helped all the girls increase in their sense of patriotism.

Cichelli said...

This country is different from others because of our freedoms. As soon as our government begins to define what is or isn't appropriate as an individual expression of speech, such as flag burning or refusal to pledge allegiance to the same flag, we are on a dangerous path to losing a lot of important freedoms and allowing our government to define what is or isn't acceptable for everyone. Just because something is offensive to some people, doesn't mean it should be outlawed or have a constitutional amendment forbidding it.

Someone who burns a flag isn't saying they hate America OR that they hate armed forces--I HATE that argument. It's an expression of how they feel about the current administration. And I'm so angry about what Bush's administration has done to our country and how they've endangered the LIVES of our armed forces on faulty intel, I could burn a flag. Or march. Or more conveniently -- because it's REALLY cold outside in Utah -- blog about it here.

What pisses me off is how much time and energy is wasted on issues like these, which are really non-issues, compared to bigger causes. I wish the politicians and activists who put their energy and money towards preventing flag burning would channel that energy towards ending homelessness, or fixing the health care crisis, or the social security crisis, or our national security crisis.

Alifinale said...

I hate politics mostly so I don't really care. But I do want to say that I hate Forwarded emails (occasionally they make me laugh) but my dad used to send me all the political ones like the one that inspired this post and I finally said something - hurt his feeling but I don't get the stupid forwards anymore. So good for you being sassy!

But to answer your question, I think I might be in between you and the Mr. I think flags and pledges really can be a strong symbol of patriotism so I understand that it can offend people to not honor that but I also think flags are made into quilts so whatever. I just don't get why people get so wound up over others actions...you can't control others and you shouldn't let what they do affect you.

Oh, and I hope the health problems aren't too serious and will get better soon.

go boo boo said...

To me, the flag and the anthem and the pledge make my heart swell with pride (seriously I cry like everytime!). I believe in this country (as far and long as we have to do this country thing and can't just live all as one family and all) for good things and all the freedoms we are so lucky to enjoy and all that. Totally side with the Mister and with saltwater.

Anonymous said...

Please keep us up to date with those medical concerns. I am thinking about you and hoping for the best!

This HTT is going to take some careful consideration and debate with dh before I can post about a conclusion

stephanie said...

who cares about flags and pledges. i am just glad you are feeling sassy today, too.

Heidi said...

Amen, Mrs. Dub! That's the whole point of America--we can burn the flag if we want to without going to prison for seventeen years and doing hard labor.

I just might burn it myself, not because of the protest factor, but because I'm SO fascinated by fire.

Justin & Kamie said...

I don't care if a citizen doesn't salute..but a citizen who wants to be the president, commander-in-chief..well that is a different story.

Plus placing your hand over your heart is actually part of the United States Code..something I would think a presidential hopeful would adhere to..at least until he gets elected and then decides to start breaking whatever laws he wants...(http://frwebgate.access.gpo.gov/cgi-bin/getdoc.cgi?dbname=browse_usc&docid=Cite:+4USC4)

All in all, that wouldn't be enough to get or lose my vote. Obama lost my vote because he is just plain looney! :)

Anonymous said...

I dont care about Obama bein a Muslim and wantin to destroy the country, ruin America,make us all wear birkas or whatever , cuz' that boy can DANCE!

sara said...

I'm with Mr. Dub. And burning a flag for its retirement is entirely different than burning it for any other reason. But our political differences aside, I do agree that all this Obama-muslim stuff is ridiculous. There are about a million valid reasons not to elect him, but any muslim ties he may or may not have is not one of them.

And I do hope you are feeling well.

Anonymous said...

I believe that is important to be positive and support your country. I believe in the power unity can have and I get really annoyed by the idea of political parties sometimes. I think people vote for Republicans or Democrats because that is what they claim to be...but I think a president should be elected on character, integrity and ideals...all the qualities that leaders should have...regardless of his/her party. I know parties are there to provide order, equal sides...whatever. But sometimes people get so soaked-up in it they forget that there "rival" party could be people who are there best friends, neighbors or family. I think that if you think "America sucks right now" that there are better ways to make a statement than getting irate and burning something that meant so much to the people who migrated here for freedom of choice and the people who faught for freedom in the beginning. They sacraficed so much for us. I think that flag burning is the beginning of terrorism. I can see your point about the flag not being a "sacred symbol", but burning it creates a pretty hateful message...and not very logical. And as for the pledge, I understand freedom of religion in our country and if you choose not to participate I can respect that. However, I feel that the pledge should continue to stay what it is because it, once again, reflects the feelings and reasons for the American movement. And that's all.

hilari said...

i got the same e-mail. it made me laugh at it's ignorance.

you know what else makes me feel cult-ish? the young womans theme.

Laurel said...

Love ya Mrs. Dub but I have to disagree. I believe that the Federal Government should have the power to protect the flag from acts of desecration. The value of the flag as a symbol cannot be measured. It has its own special qualities which in my opinion makes it eligible for special rules and regulations. A person may “own” a flag but that ownership comes with special rules and responsibilities which include protecting it from public acts of defilement.

Kelley Bochman Smith said...

I'm with Mr. Dubb. and #16 anonymous's quote. But I am also proud to belong to families that can debate and agree to disagree, while being open to change when out "gut" recognizes truth.

Kelley Bochman Smith said...

Oh, and I can't stand forwards!!! Ok, if it is funny, but those sad ones that you are also supposed to send to 10 other people make me little angry. First of all, my 10 people are on the list that my name was on I don't need any more guilt!

Anonymous said...

I got that email forward about Obama too, and I hated it! I can’t believe forward such ignorant crap. Do they actually believe what is written in these ridiculous emails?

I got another forwarded email the other day about how illegal immigrants get more benefits from Social Security and other welfare services than US citizens do. Since I work for one of these agencies, I was appalled by how completely inaccurate the entire email was, and then I have to deal with the public who read these and BELIEVE them - without doing any real research on their own.

As for the flag - I’m glad we have the right to burn a US flag and to refrain from reciting the pledge of allegiance. I don’t agree with it– however I’m proud to live in a country where we have that right.

Heather said...

I'm with Mr. Dub on this one too.

Take it easy, Mrs. Dub.

Melanie M. McKinnon said...

in my humble opinion, a civilian has the right to do whatever they want and think whatever they want about the pledge and the american flag. we pay good money for that right.

but if someone is petitioning to be the President of the United States, he better show the flag respect and put his hand on his heart while reciting the pledge. he's no longer a civilian.

i have nothing good to say about barak obama. he should not be the president. finding out he doesn't say the pledge only fuels the fire that is my anger towards him.

i'll stop there, otherwise it could get ugly.

allisonlaurel said...

I would have to disagree with cichelli, because no matter how you feel about the current administration- this particular set of people are not the flag. The flag does not represent G.W. Bush. It was around long before him and will be around long after he is gone. It represents our country- the people in it and the people who fight and die to protect it.

Now, on the subject of burning it- I think it's a stupid thing to do, but people do lots of stupid things: burn money, take drugs, watch the Tyra Banks show. I would be upset if my children did it, but I don't think anyone should be sent to jail for it. I am a ridiculous patriot and so to show this I will always say the pledge with an air of soberness, I will always treat the flag with respect and I will always believe we live in the greatest nation on Earth.

janaya said...

i wish i had the energy to write everything i was feeling about this topic and many of the comments that have been made already, but alas... i don't. so i'm going to keep it simple. i'm canadian. and i live in the u.s. and i happen to love both countries very much. when in canada, i sing the national anthem with pride and adoration... i keep my hands at my side, as that is what is appropriate there. when in the u.s., i sing the national anthem (still learning some of the words, even after 10.5 years, mind you) with pride and adoration... i put my hand over my heart, as that is what is appropriate here. i have fond feelings for both flags. for what they stand for. and i happen to feel very strongly that a flag should be cared for and respected. i have a hard enough time seeing a tattered flag forgotten up a flag pole (come on, people), so seeing a flag burned creates very strong emotions inside me. that being said... should it be illegal? i doubt it. should congress spend their time focusing on matters much more important than whether burning a flag should be illegal? probably. is america the greatest nation on earth? possibly. should americans say it so much? probably not. (sorry... i get a little touchy about that). :)

janaya said...

AND... i'm so sorry about all the medical troubles. :(

Kate said...

I am so sick of politicians acting like five year olds and bringing out the most ridiculous things to make each other look bad.

This is a free country and we are entitled to show respect for the flag or disgust for the same flag- When I hear or see these emails sent to me by others who may want to sway my vote one way or another, I,

#1- Rarely believe what they are saying and picture a campaign aid from the other candidate rubbing his hands together saying, "This is a good one!"

#2- Think it is sad that some Americans believe these things and take them to heart... (are we really that stupid)

#3- Shudder at the media & free press (even though I believe in this freedom)

#4- Wonder why anyone would want to run for President with all the opposition that abounds.

#5- If I am at all concerned about the rumor.. I check the sources and most often find that they are blown out of proportion and untrue.

Lindsey from The R House said...

i used to tell my third graders regarding the pledge, "i don't care if you don't want to stand and say the pledge with the class ...but, i do expect you to be respectful to those people that do want to."

isn't that the way it should be? we recognize and respect the rights that others have to stand or not stand? to burn or not burn? to pledge or not pledge?

but, i am a hypocrite because i am pro-life. but, like you said, that's a different HTT.

Colleen said...

Remember at BYU when they'd take the flag down and everyone on campus was expected to stop in their tracks and put their hand on their heart? Yeah, if I was in a hurry, I'd pretend to be Canadian.

I hate email forwards. I don't remember the last time I read an entire one, except to make fun of it later.

And politics are yuck.

Carina said...

I'm with you, Mrs. Dub and you, cichelli.

I love my country and I will defend my right, and your right, to burn a flag (or an effigy) and to say the pledge, or not say the pledge.

Anyone who says I don't love this country, or don't respect the people who fight for it, simply because I believe in the most expansive definition of the first amendment, is a cotton-headed ninny muggins.

Me and the Bill of Rights, we're BFFs.

So, my question is that the people who are most upset when a protester burns the flag are often the same folks who have flags out their car windows getting filthy and tattered in the breeze. Incongruous.

Anonymous said...

I just wanted to extend my love to you Mrs Dub!! I love ya!!!

The Rookie said...

And the controversy abounds! Nice HTT.

Every Monday during announcements, my school participates in the Pledge of Allegiance. I allow my students the liberty of participating or opting out. But these are my thoughts on the matter: if you so choose to not participate in 'Da Pledge, so be it. There can be a great many reasons behind that decision, I'm willing to accept most. I will mention, however, that I take serious offense when individuals protest/demonstrate with vague or little understanding of their own motivation behind the protest/demonstration. I have students who refuse to say the pledge because their "boyz" refuse to say the pledge. While some students clearly know their reasoning behind that refusal--this can range from immigration to their stance on the war--others look to their peers for guidance, thinking they understand the refusal. And that, to me, is just another form of blind obedience.

Ashby said...

I'm gonna have to side with Mr. Dub on this one.

Freedom of speech is just that, speech. Not lighting a symbol of America's freedom on fire. If you are pissed off then use that speech and say something. Or start looking into the real issues and go out and vote for officials who can say it louder for you. There's no need to go burn things to get your message across.

A Mom Two Boys said...

I'm totally, absolutely, 100% with you on this one. I could go on and on and on and on, but I'm just going to leave it at that because I'm pretty sure I can't do my thoughts justice right now.
Hope everyone's doing okay!

Lindsey from The R House said...

p.s. i love this line from the article you linked:

Anonymous attacks by e-mail are, or at least should be, un-American.

...but, not as much as i love you and your family. you are in our prayers.

Kate said...

I'm with Mr. Dub. and have enjoyed the discussion in these comments. And I love Colleen's. So funny.

I just wanted to mostly say that I hope the health concerns you are referring to are ones we already know about and hopefully your other family members are healthy. You have me so worried. Take care and rest a lot....

Rachie said...

I side with Mr. Dub. I belive the flag is a symbol of Freedom.

I hope you and your cysts are doing well. :)

Ryan said...

Such a ridiculous forward. I love Obama, your post, and America.

I think the picture debate is silly. Wish the whole logic for going for war got the same amount of attention that that this Obama e-mail has gotten.

I double check Obama's site and it list him as for America, so commenters worried about this, relax.

Skyler said...

I was turned on to your blog by our mutual Canadian friend, Janaya, and I couldn't be happier to have another great blog to read while sitting in boring law classes. Thanks for letting me read -- you are a good American!