12.06.2005

Why should you care about me?


You shouldn't. I never even read a blog until today. What I found fascinating about it wasn't that I was peering into the life of another living soul who is happens to be the wife of a friend of a husband of a friend of mine who I don't see that regularly but adore. As you can see, it wasn't about catching up on her life because I don't even know her, though I'm sure our paths have crossed at a barbecue sometime. What was fascinating about her blog was the concept that she was writing to an audience -- something that a journal or diary can only ever presume to do. Sure, there's that unknown posterity out there waiting to read the details of your life looking for a shred of heritage. Except I've never read any of my ancestors' writings so it's hard for me to really believe what I'm writing matters. However, the idea that some 12-year-old girl in Louisville might be reading this entry right now makes me feel a little more accountable for the words I put down. She likes me. She wants to know what I'm thinking. She cares about me right now and not 100 years from now. That's what's so appealing about a blog. Reading them, however, holds little charm for me unless I know the person well. And being the wife of a friend of a husband of a friend mine who I don't see that regularly but adore doesn't count. But maybe you're different. I hope so.

2 comments:

stephanie said...

I care about you! I am so excited to be reading your blog!

tara said...

Dubbs... i'm sure this is your 'alias' and if it's not then I just stuck my foot in my mouth (= I'm tara... stephanie's sister Leslie's friend) I just had to laugh b/c I can relate to missing my husband and wondering what in the heck I'll do with myself... it's 11 pm and I should go to bed, but my house is quiet, my 2 kids are asleep and my husband will be home in an hour & a 1/2 or so... so I'm aimlessly wandering through blogs... but I've really enjoyed reading yours. you can see mine at eightcowmom.blogspot.com

Cheers!